You will need an odd number of people for this game.

Set up the chairs in a circle.  Pick people to stand behind the chairs, such as 7 people behind 7 chairs.  Then put the other 6 in 6 chairs.  For this instance, we'll say that you have 6 guys and 7 girls.

The girls behind the chairs are to keep their hands behind their back and their head straight down (looking at the top ot the guy's head).  And all the guys in the chairs must sit all the way back in their chair.

The girl without a guy in her chair has the job of trying to get someone in her chair and keep him there.  In order to "steal" a guy away, she must wink at him.

Once winked at, the guy must escape and leave the chair without being touched by the girl standing behind him.  If he escapes, he goes to the empty chair and sits down.  Then the girl now without a boy in her chair must wink at someone to steal them away.  If he does NOT escape without being touched, he must go back and sit down.